Year One
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One year came and went just like that since starting Milk & Honey Faith. I started on June 22, 2016 to be exact. The lessons have been invaluable and the blessings have been beyond anything I could have conjured up. If anyone had told me a year ago that I would be in the place that I am today, I wouldn’t have believed them. That’s the way God is though. He gives us more than we desire or or hope for. His ways are not our ways after all.
The Challenges
I would love to tell you that it has been easy, but I can’t. In fact it has been the exact opposite of easy. Choice word there…did you catch it?
Opposite.
Opposition.
Oh friend, opposition comes in all different forms and sizes. When you set out to do God’s work you will face opposition and boy did I ever! I have been attacked in family, friendships, finances, and faith. When you are being effective for the kingdom of God you become a solid threat to the enemy. You become an exposer of lies and your work leads people to Jesus. Satan hates that. Therefore, he will make it as difficult as possible to continue.
Be that as it may, I would rather be attacked for doing God’s will than sitting comfortably in disobedience.
Obedience
There have been a few times that I have second guessed myself and wondered if blogging was worth my time and effort. Was anyone really getting anything from the blog posts I was putting out there? Was I really called to be a writer?
Those questions led to me having distinct thoughts about giving up. Quick thoughts, but still there nonetheless. Then I would feel immediate conviction because I realized it was foolish to quit something I was called to do simply based on my emotions.
Emotions are fleeting. The call of God carries eternal weight.
So that’s when I would push through whatever funk I was in, and continue with my writing.
When I stand before Him one day, I’d like to hear “Well done, my good and faithful servant.” It is Him I have to answer to.
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“But my life is worth nothing to me unless I use it for finishing the work assigned me by the Lord Jesus–the work of telling others the Good News about the wonderful grace of God.”
Acts 20:24 NLT
Hard Work
When it comes to blogging it is an absolute joy to be able to do something I love and have passion for, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t hard work. It takes perseverance and faithfulness just like any other ministry. It takes discipline to keep up to date with posts and social media, and it takes tenacity to stick it out when technical problems pop up (and believe me, they do).
Do not be disillusioned if you are thinking about starting a blog. Blogging takes dedication and working your schedule around so that you keep God first, family second, ministry third, and work fourth. Proper scheduling is a balancing act that I still haven’t completely conquered, but making good use of my time is certainly a lot easier than when I first started out.
“But don’t begin until you count the cost. For who would begin construction of a building without first calculating the cost to see if there is enough money to finish it?
Luke 14:28 NLT
Accountability
This brings me to my next challenge. Living what I am writing.
When I set out to start my blog I wanted my story to be real and transparent. That is still very much my heart behind Milk & Honey Faith.
I knew that if I couldn’t live His truth, I would not be able to teach it. So that is where accountability came into play. I made up my mind to stay accountable to God and be as authentic as possible when writing about each situation. By doing this I’m able to teach you while learning my own life lessons.
I am able to keep myself accountable to God by immersing myself in His Word and devoting myself to prayer. He has shown me that when I allow His word to transform and renew me that I’m able to be used effectively.
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“Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.”
Romans 12:2 NLT
Spiritual Attacks
Can I just be real with you…
The devil doesn’t play fair. He’s slimy and grimy and loves to play with my emotions.
Before I started blogging I didn’t pay too much attention to the strategies of the enemy. However, after getting involved in ministry the stakes are much higher than they used to be. The attacks have been so intense that it has rattled my senses.
Yet, the Lord’s truth still remains and that is that He will never forsake me. He will never forsake us. The attacks come and go, and through it all God’s strength remains steadfast.
“We are pressed on every side by troubles, but we are not crushed. We are perplexed, but not driven to despair. We are hunted down, but never abandoned by God. We get knocked down, but we are not destroyed.”
2 Corinthians 4:8-9 NLT
The Little Things
There are also itty bitty challenges. The little things are tiny in comparison to the real challenges, but as you know small things add up. Small things like:
Blogging Platforms
Social Media
Hosting
Email Providers
Guest Posting
SEO
Branding
Well, I’m sure you get the idea. If you let it, all that is involved in starting and running a blog can drive you bonkers. All of the little extras are capable of completely overwhelming you if you are not careful. My solid advice is to tackle one area at a time and do some studying before hitting publish.
These challenges are not mentioned here to deter you from starting a blog of your own, but so that you may learn from my experience and know what to expect. I will be talking about the blessings in my first year of blogging in part two of my post. Truth be told, if I could go back I would do it all over again.
Be Prepared
As a matter of fact, if I knew then what I know now I would have purchased a course, or book. It so happens that I know the perfect book to get you started and I’m thrilled to be able to share it with you. If you are beginning to feel a tug on your heart to start a blog than I encourage you to purchase this resource “By His Grace We Blog“. This book wasn’t even around a year ago when I began blogging! Had it been, I would have jumped on it.
I’m also going to let you in on a little secret…
There is an upside to purchasing a blogging book rather than a course. That is that it will save you HUNDREDS (if not thousands) of dollars. Yes you read that correctly. Those course prices can be over the top expensive.
This book was written by someone who has become a close personal friend whom loves the Lord dearly. I’ve seen her literally put the details of her book into action and I’m witnessing the results. Another perk is you can have this book in your hands and start reading today because it’s an eBook! That means you can read it on your phone or iPad!
So without much further ado I introduce to you Carmen Brown from Married By His Grace and encourage you to purchase her eBook “By His Grace We Blog“.
Click on the image to purchase your eBook today!
Make sure you come back to read Part Two of this post about the blessings I’ve experienced in my first year of blogging. You can also stay updated by liking and following my page on Facebook!
Be Blessed!
Casey says
Awesome word, Natalie!! I feel so encouraged by it. Thank you for being transparent. ??
Natalie V says
Thank you Casey for stopping in. It gives me great joy to know that something I’m writing is bringing encouragement! God bless!
jill says
This is something I’m definitely going to be taking with me: “I would rather be attacked for doing God’s will than sitting comfortably in disobedience.” SUCH A POWERFUL statement.
Natalie V says
Amen Jill! It can be difficult to die to ourselves and pick up that cross, but so worth it!
Brittany Morgan says
Thanks so much for this!!! I am in my first few months, and this is my reality too! You are inspiring me to stay the course. I KNOW that my little blog is making an impact. I’ve started to screenshot and save the different testimonials I get from women that it has touched to keep me going. God’s faithfulness is great enough for us!
Natalie V says
You’re very welcome Brittany! It’s my heart behind writing to posts like these to help other bloggers in the beginning stages. So yes, stay the course! You are already getting affirmation that you are touching lives through your obedience to do as you are called. That is such a blessing. Stick with it!
Casey says
Definitely! I don’t think some people realize how time consuming blogging is or how much work goes into it. I have also felt spiritual attacks after writing something God put on my heart, many times things I was incredibly hesitant to write about. Just means I did what I should have and devil didn’t like it!
Tiffany Parry says
You’ve captured this so beautifully, Natalie. It is by no means easy, but the best things rarely are. You’ve been so faithful to pursue God’s calling on your own life. But more than that, you’ve been faithful to come alongside other women who are seeking to serve God with their gifts, and for that, I am certain our Father is well pleased. Blessings, friend. xoxo
Valerie Murray says
Natalie, Congratulations on your one year of blogging—that from the looks of your beautiful blog and from the fruits of your minsitry, it would seem it should be a 10 year blogging anniversary. Thank you for your authentic heart and for sharing the Lord in such a real way. I sure hope to meet you one day! Blessings!
Tiffany says
I so get that… the enemy hits hard when the platform is public. I never realized, but it is hard! Thanks for the encouragement.
Diana says
Praise the Lord for bringing you thus far into the blogging ministry 🙂
I have been blogging for 8 months now and everything you just said resonates with me . Blogging is a ministry that should take place after the Lord, and family; and it does take a lot of hard work, patience, and prayer against the real enemy.
God bless you in the furtherance of HIS Kingdom here
Diana
Cindy says
Love this post. Though I’ve only been in this ministry almost 6 months, I can identify with a lot of what you’ve shared. I’ve so much more to learn and I’m thrilled to be here, doing this ministry. I so appreciate you and Carmen for your leadership though I must say I thought each of you had been blogging for several years! I look forward to learning more from you in this next year. Happy anniversary!
Shirley says
This was a great post and so helpful. I’m in the beginning stages of my own blog. I feel like you’ve just written my story. All I want to do is spread God’s Word and Satan finds a way to get in my way. However, I refuse to stop and I will not give up. I can do all things through Christ who strengthen me. So I thank you for sharing. It has given me the boost I need to keep on going. I pray that the Lord continues to work through you and to form a hedge of protection around you and your family, in Jesus name.
Amanda says
Just letting you know I nominated you for the Blogger Recognition Award over at https://mylovelycrazylife.com/blogger-recognition-award/
Natalie V says
What an incredibly sweet gesture! I’m so completely blessed by you! A million thank you’s!
Maree Dee says
I loved reading your post on your first year of blogging. It is challenging. I too started a year ago. I thought you might enjoy reading the post I wrote on my one year anniversary. http://www.embracingtheunexpected.com/do-you-listen-to-gods-whispers/
I love your website, and I am so glad I found it through linking up.
Maree
Natalie V says
Hiya Maree!
Thank you for sharing your post with me, I’m about to run over to your blog and read it. Congrats on one year for you! It’s so exciting to meet like-minded friends : )
Cindy says
Oh, Natalie! What a beautiful post! So true for me as well and I’m behind you by six months! Well said, well written! Thank you for encouraging us to stay the course, keep moving forward!
Natalie V says
Thank you Cindy for the encouragement to keep moving forward. Nothing brings me more fulfillment than doing that which I’m called to!